Relationships. .

Posted 11/02/2008 by Shystie in
Sooo, I was having a conversation yesterday and was asked what do i look for etc. . So i was like hmm ok, the things he has to be on is or things i look for is. . 

1. He has to Drive - Come on, i'm in my twenties, so the men i date are only in that age range, so my thing is, why havent you got a car? Why are you not driving? Does this mean, you take bus?? 


Arghhh helllll naw. . 

2. He has to be working - 'If YOU'RE not working, Then I'M NOT INTERESTED' It's different if you've just lost you're job and you're in the process of looking for one. . But when you're just Bumming it out at home all day, signing on, expecting me to pay for yo ass when we go out and pick u up all the time, then u got me confused. .

3. He has to be a gentleman - I like Men that are caring, supportive, protective, a best friend, guys that open doors (i don't expect him to on that one, but if he did i'd take heed like 'Awww that was nice'

4. He has to be a MAN, as in, not some lil soft boy gimp, he has to be He-Man strong HA - Ok, so i like men that are a lil thuggy, but at the same time i dont want some woman beating gun man thats always in and out of pen, NO that's NOT what i'm looking for.  Also a man that isn't going to let me just take the piss and take him for asshole, when we're arguing he has to be able to stand his ground and not jus run away from the problem, (i hate WIMPS ergh). .  And lastly i like men that are masculine, Whoo gimme a big built man any day, (not on the skinny guys, im slim enough for the both of us so it aint gona work if he is too, nuh uh) 

5. He has to be Focused - I love driven men, that have goals and ambition. . Men that know what they want and go out and get it, instead of sitting at home day dreaming about all the shoulda, coulda, woulda's. . Get up, do that shit and stay on it. .

5. Hmm i like romantic guys that can wine and dine me and surprise me with random things without me having to hint HA - Na seriously thou, i do like to go or be taken out, wined n dined from time to time and do spontaneous things. I just like to have fun but at the same time, i like to chill an have nights in where we just order take aways and watch dvds etc. .  hmm. .

6. A man that can inspire me to be a higher me, that listens and can help me when i need advice also -  I'm not interested in any man that isn't on my level and above as me mentality. .  Its so long and thats why i have no time for BOYS. Also, I'm very independent, i make my own money, Dont and wont ever be a gold digger (Cant stand dem girls or men), i pay my own way, i got my own things and dont EXPECT a man to give me money or anything like that. All i look for in a man is a good man, on point men is the way fwd and i wont except anything less, why should i?

Hmm can't think of more right now, i know there's other things lol but thats it for the minute. . 
Is that too much? Is that not enough? What do you look for and want, actually, what do you expect as a standard?

I know how i am, im always surrounded by men as i have a lot of male friends, so i get treated like a lil princess and often i use them as a template as to what i want in my own man. . lol is that bad?

For example when i go out with some of my good male friends, and we go shopping, they always holds my bags, ALWAYS without me even having to ask. And im like 'Hun, its fine you know, you dont have to hold them' and they're like 'Just gimme your bags'.  So i'm always like 'Awww thank you'. . My brother does that a lot when we go out too, and i say 'You're going to make such a good boyfriend' lol. .

But yeah, my sisters are saying im bad for some of the things i look for lol but im like 'fcuk that, once you get treated like a lady, you cant go back to bullshit' plus the fact i dont feel like i should settle for less. All the things i look for and expect in a man, i'm willing to do as well, so its not like i want all these things and im not willing to do just the same for him, cos i am, will and do.

Hmmm. .  Let me know what you want in a relationship, the things you expect, what is standard things for him or her to do? What are you willing or not willing to to? etc

Hit me back and let me know what ya think. .  mwah x


21 comment(s) to... “Relationships. .”

21 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hey girl... jus had a quick read of ur blog and found it highly interesting.... its wierd how society, media and culture has such an input on how we feel in our relationships...
For point1, I do agree to a certain degree.... before i disregard the guy for not being able to drive I'd have to give him a chance, because the stigma that is attached to a man that don't drive is that he will turn up late, or still lives with his mom n stuff, so me personally would have to be fair and give him a chance 1st...then if i just can't tolerate the long ting then its just a no no.....i can't remember the last time I dated a guy who didn't drive tho lol,
Point 2- This is a tricky one as if they don't work then 9 times out of ten there is no income coming thru to support or treat me, but then that aint the be all and en all of the relationship...obviously I admire and would love a guy that has a tax code lol... and who appreciates the struggle of makin money the legitimate way... but then if a guy is a student and unable to work then thats kinda different 4 me....but then i suppose the ideal guy would b educated and working and that aint easy to find where im from trust me. I wouldn't be begging for treats and to be taken out all the time but it would be nice if i didn't have to think about the 'no money' issue on his part.
Point 3- Yes.... must be a gentleman, its not about a mike tyson wannabe.... though i find sensitivity a blessin in a guy...just need to find one with it lol...
point 4- A MAN!!!!! That's what im talkin about!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im not really into the mommy's boy business, the mom being the middle man of decision making etc.... not into it, its sad. I don't like softness either hun, such A TURN OFF when its not needed, somebody who can be firm and fair, realize mistakes and faults and move on end of, no lay lay business. Assertive, Strong and confidence is bliss. It all has to match with bod type too i suppose, im not into the slim guys as you hit the nail on the head saying that ur slim enough 4 the both of you lol....thats me too.... but too much muscle, and i mean TOO much might be a problem.

And in general on the other topics, theres no problem with wanting a go getter, i love that in a guy, determination and being focused is sexy....its very rare these days tho whats goin on?? A guy that can give you a kick up the backside when its needed is sexy too as it shows he's lookin out 4 ur best interests too and it also shows that he wants you to be on par with him also achieving the best at the top.

I think its cool that u see others as templates or shall i say 'A Person with many qualities and Flaws' lol....everybody does it in some shape or form... i do it too. Especially when comin out of a relationship, you sit there and say to urself 'Well i don't want a man that does this or that cuz ive been there' and thats the way we learn more about ourselves, what we may tolerate and what we won't, if we want someone who smokes and drinks or not, whether we want somebody who already has kids or not....also, experiencing things like that with someone just automatically turns them into a template, whether they're a good or bad one lol..... so naa, i understand what you mean fully.

Trust me the dating game is hilarious... and its a journey as well...gotta kiss many frogs....even toads lol x



Nicole (Cherries TnT) Louis said...

Ello!!! well Ima try n b brief..

1st of all LMAO at ur blog - pyer jokes but so true!!1 LOL

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1 - i detest public transport with a passion!!!! so ur dead rite - he needs 2 be able to drive me around - i defo aint meetin no man at da bus stop or train stn.. Llllllloooonnnnnggggg!!!!!!!!!! :o/
plus i'm fed up of always datin sum1 who dont drive but i do - all da responsibilities on me den.. nah im 29 dammit and i want sum1 who can drive!!! :o/

2 - yes hunny!!!! J.O.B - nuf said. an i dont mean McDOnalds or Sainsburys either. I want sum1 who's got or workin toward a CAREER. u know dat thing that secures sum kind of regualr adn meaningful pay.. the thing that can take u places and helps you to excel in life and to be able to provide.. yep a J.O.B - it aint hard to spell or to do..

3 - oooh yes I nice gtentleman. My ex was very much like that-open doors, always carry the bags and even makes me walk on the inside of the pavement in case a car licks me down - now that is a gentleman. pity he cudn't b faithful :o/ we aint goin there..... :o/ movin swiftly on!

4 - Defo a REAL MAN - not a mickey mouse type dat only can pretend like he's aman but can't wash his own underpants when he takes it off in da mornin :o/ or da type who aint got no ambition!! dats a real man to me.. with regard to the physic... cant stand hench hench men !! ugh!!! :o> when they walk it looks like they're in pain and they're so hench dat der arms cant lay at their side. nah mate!!! a bit of muscle is alright even a little ouch I dont mind coz we can fix dat!! don't watch dat!!! work him out u get me!!

5 - same as 2 really no focus means no ambition means no REAL J.O.B that will sustain addn take him (and me) places.

6 - yeah an educated man wud be good - goes without sayin... its nice to have someone who gives u things to think about and helps you to discova wot u dont know.

Now I jus hav to put dis last thin out der - HE MUST BE FAITHFUL above all.. i know i know ican hear u say 'but dats jus men tho'' well not all emn are like dat and wot i giv out I expect. i know sum peple makes mistakes but most men dont even try to behave. they're excuse is 'but im a man tho' so I aint havin it. he will get discarded and dismis'd like an old dutty rag!!!! sorry.. dats how I hang baby!! :o/

sorry bout da spellin - my bath is gettin cold.. cherah!!!! :)



Anonymous said...

You kno what's mad! Me and a friend were having this exact conversation the other morning and I was saying practically the same points u drew on there!!
Especially point 4! I always say I want an EQUAL relationship! None of this 'Who's in charge?' la dee da. I will not sit and have a man tell me what to do an take me for a punk and I most definately dont want any man to just jump when i tell them, agree to anything i say and not stand upto me!
If we were to debate about something I want a DEBATE, not some one sided conversation!
Also i TOTALLY agree with number 5 and 6!
I love a man that has dreams to make something of himself, whether he is successful or not, the whole point is that they're trying and i think that makes a man truly sexy!



Shystie said...

Amen my sistas goodness gracious. . I need some men's point of views on what we want and also what they want. . Feedback gents!



Simey baaby said...

see da problem wit u ladys iz u want to dyaam much. C'mon lets be honest u lot r never gonna get the man dat man dat u paint in your brain he jus dont exist and a figmant of ur imagination.

No man iz perfect wether hes successful or unsuccessful wether he has a aston martin or a push bike wer all on the same level material things iant shit wen ur dealing wit life itself.

truth iz there may b 1 or two things out of ur standards dat he doesnt fit so wat u do then dash him??

im baffld to wat a women really want, do u wanna thug? or do u want a gentlemen? u can't have both. man can't go to his big acounting job in da city, come home take off his clothes bun twenty sliffs, rock a hoody to go chill on da block, sell crack rob man den go work the nex day. dats wat i call fake thuggin tryna prove su em ur not its ieher your one way or your not. jus cause u talk street dont mean ur frm da sreets i mean how can a dude swear hes frm the streets n manz gotta c/v.

About dis car ting... ok i can give u ladys the benefit of da doubt, u like to b driven ur probably a big women dat drives urself and want a man to complement and match that lifestyle kool!

i jus wanna tho say every man iant a hustler in the sense he sold drugs to make other peoples lives miserable while he lavishly reeps the benefits on nice cars and clothes.

Every man iant a fraudster that depletes another persons wealth to again to fund lavish lifestyles.

Every man dont take out credit to enslave himself to the system while hes working a 9 to 5 jus to pay it off not only that but living expsenses car notes not to mention gas.

so wat man r u lot talking about?? u must be talkin dat richard branson type dis guy has to b white 4 real, caa no blackman i know dats not in entertainment sports or media moooves like dat. the black manz i know r drug dealers struggling 9 to fivers or sum one died n left dem inheritance.

To find a manz dat iant one of these r minoritys amongst the majority of black people and even white caa dem man r fake thuggin 2 and if hes close to a mill, u beter beleive hes stressd he iant got time 4 no girl.

U will definalty find a man thats ambitous gud head on his shoulders he might not have a car but he has his own yard he might not have a yard but has his own car. At the of the day it all boils down to wat ur willin to put up wit and wat chemistry u have wit dat person.

I wanna women with money prety intelligent has a yard a car no kids, nice teeth, nice booty, nice feet, frsh breath, perfect breast, but wen i think about dis girl dont exist blud because i jus imagined her lol

Trust me wen i tell u ladys none of ya'll r getting the total package u jus gonna have to make do with wat u got, lower the standards a bit dats y most of ya'll r single lol if wat u got or find iz close to dat imaginary person word of advice.... snaaaatch him. best of luck Simon g hahahaha



_crown royal said...

wow! and i thought ii was picky! lol



Nicole (Cherries TnT) Louis said...

LMAO at Simey - OKAY let me break it down fu ya!!!!

1st of all we dont want too much thank u!! what we ask is realsitic if a man wud be bothered to try. i do agree that coz he dont tick 1 or 2 of da boxes he shud not get dashd coz of it.. but progress is necessary anda willingness to change sum things- compromise. i wud expect him to tell me wot hed like from me so i canalso change sum things for the betta. i want me and my man to be unified so I can make sacrafices too.

now - no ones expectin a man to make load of money- okay well i aint but he has to have ambition and have a drive to go somewhere... so defo dont want no crack deala or hustler.. and i dont agree dat there aint no black man dat who aint got lots of money otha thsn those whos inhereited it or deals drugs. i've know men wantin to buy me with wit they've worked hard for.. so...

Finally, LMAO at ur request for a women. its defo possible ther r sum beautiful hunnies out der - u probably aint lookin in da right places..

MWAH!! come on guys lets get some more male persepctives



Anonymous said...

They (whoever "they" are) say that if you write down/have in mind all the things you want in a partner, THEN, write a list/think about what THAT person would want in a partner. Amazing men are out there but why are they going to be compelled to treat you in such a way if you're not equally amazing? I like to think I'm ready for love, but in order to be that i need to work on me, before anyone that worthy is not just going to be in my life, but I'll be able to appreciate it.



Simey baaby said...

yo miss nicole let me break it down 4 u now hunny.
to find one dat actually matches ur criteria iz a straight co-insedense. u have to b activly searching for dat he iant gonna come churps u off da roads.
NOw u said u detest public transport ur 29 so he defo has to drive. due to ur age i can understand wat ur saying init.

u also said u dont want man working in mcdonalds he has to have career understandle yet again.

What im saying now iz if he works in mcdonalds and told he worked wit a big corperate company if u found out wud u break up wit him??

isnt a job still a job?? if resession goes out of control and all u had left wer jobs like mcdonalds and sainsbury's.

i think u would b content wit a man dat works in such a company its better than him being broke and having no income.

i think it shudnt b about wat a guy can offer u it shud b about wat u can offer a guy aswell seems like u lot can't see past material posseions out here.

If hes broke den its a problem like u never been broke b4. I think women should definatly choose mans thats got there mind right focusd individuals dat can and r willin to take care of u dats a womens right.

women need to stop focusing on manz bank account and wat he does n focus on his soul who iz ur maan, iz he gonna b there wen u get pregnant or iz he gonna leave, iz he dedicated or is he unfaithful.
wen u meet a guy try to not ask questions like wat do u do or wat do drive but instead try n get to know who he iz, wer hes frm n how he thinks, then the rest will follow.

at da end of the day cars and beauty fades so if u grow old wit him ur gonna b dealing wit his soul and person hood, once hes got his mind right all those thing r attainable if he dont already have em.

NOw i iant got no ride but i gotta yard am i not decent or worth ur time because of dat?? i dont ride bus but if i have to i will mayb ill geta car maybe i wont but if i do its not gonna 4 driving women up n down like im morgaN FREEMAN dats fo sure lol

like i said u lot want too much n dont wanna give man nutting wat u offering us?? most women today can't even cook u have to start call up granny wen grannys got her own man to cook for lol

so ambitous dese days come frm working 40 hours a week n iant got no time 4 man no time 4 da kids n people wonder y kids r doing mad tings these days, its because daddy blew out n mummy soo ambitous she iant got time ...

Don't te;ll mee the only thing u ladys gonna offer iz couchie iether!! sum manz miite b content wit dat but not meee fam...

Yo nicky u neeed to hook a brutha up uno i think i must b looking in the wrong places for true lol gimmie sum places

yo Shystie maad luv girl x
S.G



Anonymous said...

Hey shi, me personally (guy point of view) just wants a woman that's classy, dont open her legs after 1 shot (lol) and well im in my early twenties and aint met a single chick that has a car loool and if they do they still want me to pick there arse up, want a chick who can hold her own, and whos proud to be around you, dislike that hold u down shit call u every other hour and wants to cling onto u everytime your together, like a Woman thats independent has goals knows what she wants in life and tries her hardest to get it. Also a girl needs to have that fire can argue "allow the public arguements tho thats just OVER embaressing ill leave ur arse standing looking dumb as i drive off home boi lol" but dont cry and 1 thing i have to say please the girl can say I love you but dont want 1 that expects it back everytime they say it and i hate the I Love you after like 4 months whats that shit about that aint love thats infaturation (-However u spell it "giggles") anyway decent blog P.S woman needs a arse get me no lil butt ladies need something to hold and she needs to be a hidden freak soon as that room key clicks POW loool (had to add that)



Anonymous said...

I wanna women with money prety intelligent has a yard a car no kids, nice teeth, nice booty, nice feet, frsh breath, perfect breast, but wen i think about dis girl dont exist blud because i jus imagined her lol

^^ That was legendary looool



Anonymous said...

Ok Ok Ok Listen really an truthfully all a guy wants is what a woman wants no guy is really going to find the perfect match like even tho i can think about that page 3 model dont mean i'm going to get 1 is it, we our all looking for that perfect partner but seriously lets open our eyes even the most game guy has bad points the most sexiest women have bad points, we wouldnt be human if we were perfect, Most men dont want a submissive woman as they will end up boring and im an outgoing guy cant handle being the dominante 1 allllllll the time but equally dont want a woman to switch everytime u take control jeeez, girls need to learn to give an take look at themselves think what they have to offer then realise what they could get lets be real, if you have a nice body pretty face but dont work and laze about with no ambition dont expect some guy who has got places and is going somewhere to be taking you seriously, listen i work in whsmiths im a uni student im trying to pathe my way into a carreer i aint got a six pack big arms and muscles popping out my neck so i dont expect that buff arse sexi legged chick to fancy me no! all i want from a chick is the same just a normal everyday girl that can please you, yeah you dont have to drive even tho i do but dont expect me to come pick u up everytime you call as youve got a lil money TOP THAT OYSTER UP and come and see me, all guys want really is to be shown hidden love but not be given it on a silver plate the more i work for a relationship the more ill respect it. rargh im late LOOOOL



Nicole (Cherries TnT) Louis said...

LMAO LMAO aahh Simey, Simey Simey BABAAY!!! LMAO

ok lets go..
1 - a man dat is perfect of rme may just 'churps me on road' itz da way he does it dat counts.. He may say excuse me, sorry to disturb you but...' as opposed ot 'aay!!! aay!! yeah!!! u!!! i let me holla at you nuh!!!' :o/ dat aint da 1! :o/

2 - so u c my point abou tda public transport ting. I wud like aman hwo drives not because i want him to play Benson for me all da time, i luv to drive and i WUD pick him up and drive him on dates too, we'd take it in turns. when I first meet him we'd negotiate how we're gona mett- probably we both drive first few times so there's no burden on either.. u c negotiating no Benson... drving shows maturity and a willingness to be independant. it opens so many door.

2 - my man cud work in a big corpporation den get made redundant (in des cretit crunch times) and i aint gonna leave him but the fact that he worked his nuts off and had amobition to get there says alot about his state of mind and his ability to acheive. I ain sayin i wud'nt date someone who doing a job like stackin shelves but he needs to movin onward to places otha than the next aisle... agian it shows da state of mind and willingness to progress. i met guys who i can have spiritual discussions wid and who cud do great thins wid their mint but all der doing is selling weed, smokin sum of it and signin on.. doin da odd litl job her and der and den changin to anotha menainles job so wots dat about... nah! no time for den don't care how chinese der eyes r lookin and how smooth their lips r mate...!! dat llooonggg!!! lol

wot numba am i on - Lord Ive only jus startd! erm
3 - no i aint neva been broke hunny!!!! since I left school when I was 16 i ahve had no less than 2 job at one time. I even had 4 jobs and studied at da smae time when I was at college on the 90's... i aint sayin we aint struggld a bit to put gas and leci in da meter (bills at da end of da month are a con and i hate bills soo..) but Gos ALWAYS provided .. i aint sayin im rich now either but agian GOD provides...

4 - not all women/girls want a man to take car of dem da way ur sayin.. I had being bought - i cn buy things for myslef.. sum men just try to blind u wid wot they can buy u but dont know how t connect wid u emotionally and dont hav no morals or principls to know how to treat u. KMT lol. i aint no gold digga, no chaufer seeker and defo no rich man - just a man dat can work hard LEGALLY, down to earth who is FAITHFUL!!!! and loves me for ME! aaaww :o)

5 - i aint neva askd a man what he drives - dat irrelevant - i dont care if it goes choockaboom chookaboom - we're good to go yeah.. dat can be fixed.. it betta dan public transport trus me ;o) in convo we always get to do what do u do so no we can't not ask dat! :o/

6 - if i grow old wid a man den im not only havin to grow wid der person hood but also their incontinence and varicous veins.. dat wud b nice to say we got dat far.. :o/ :o)

7- not all women aint got time for their kids and family.. ther's nothin wring with being in the home andwork place... loads of single women going but how many single fathers out ther in comparison.. nto as many i bet... note the word comparison - i know der r single father out der so get bak in ur pram!!! lol I c u, I hear u

...and finally - yes its da end of my speech!

8 - I have a GREATB DEAL TO OFFER and i KNOW i put, and probalby a lot of REAL WOMEN out there too put in 1,000,000% but only seem to get 1,000% bak - of dat!!!! KMT :0/ nah seriously we feel very undervalued by a lot of men and i fink da main reason is because if they cheat it shows how much they really thort of us... not much :o/




LOL at Paul.. ur funny man!! aah u lot kill me... :o)



Anonymous said...

I agree with you. What you look for in a man are the right things, we dont need men who think they can live off us, or treat us like rubbish.
Im 18 so erm not quite looking 4 my man to have a car (although that would be nice) but I do need him to have goals and ambition like I do, he doenst have to be in uni like me but at least havea job and working towards something worth while. I go uni and I work so i dont need him to pay 4 me (dispite the fact im on min wage lol)



Shystie said...

lmao@everyone talkin bout the car thing lol

wow (maybe i need to reconsider dat point lol)

Anyways keep commenting n feedbacking people, im loving all your comments. i will be back later to comment properly, as im vocalling at da minute n shouldnt even be online hehe. .

Back later x



Simey baaby said...

yo Nicky...lol wow u done a nas n etherd it im jay-z i cant really match those 8 points u wrote uno lol.

To ur last point tho bout real women given a million percent, dat actually might b the problem still ya'll real women given too much dis shit only stops at 100, so if u given a milly u cant honestly expect man to do the same. dats jus braking the laws of percentages maaayne lol

if ders nething my pops taught me its to not argue wid a female she will go on for eternity even if shes wrong so ima throw inda towel n say thanx caa dat actually taught me su em on waat women want n frm a bre...

To the guys... fam if ur working in the off license, signing on, sweepin da roads,shot weed or bone do not move to nicky fam u have been prewarned...

u might get a chance wit shystie she a younger u can brainwash dem.. try a ting init....lol

Yo its been fun im outy 4 da moment ill b back tho shy shy jus make sure u keep em comming. Its simey baaby hahahaaaaa



Anonymous said...

Everyone looks for different qualities in a man, it's all down to opinion what's good and what isn't and still doesn't make it fact.

I agree with all of your points and think that is the standard. You ain't lying when you say once you've been treated like a lady there ain't no going back.

I just wanna add, that a man must be CLEAN.. HYGIENE is key. I know it seems blatant, but trust me there are some durrty guys at my uni. To an extent where I can smell them from across the room.

Also, he must be able and willing to tlook after himself.. cook, clean and whatever. I mean, I will do it for my man because I'm down for him, but if he didn't know how to or was just too God damn lazy to do so, then I ain't doing it!

In regards to the car thing I met my hubs when we were 15 so he was still on push bike LOL.. he's had cars, but now he sold it to get a motorbike.. I'm not gonna leave him because he ain't whipping no more (even tho public transport aint the one) but that wasn't the reason I got with him so won't be the reason I leave him.

Holding the bags is standard.. any man who don't do that ------------ wtf?!?!



Nicole (Cherries TnT) Louis said...

LMAO at IShar.. LOL - now dat is a pooint i omitted to include.. shame on me. LOL

Now Simey.. Im glad u knwo wen t bak down and recognise u aint gonna win wid me baby!! LOL

nah u gives me jokes bout brainwashin da younger ones. Shy aint dat much younger and she aint no fool hunny so u betta look elsewhere hun!! lol
an dont be batin me up like dat warnin da man dem away from me.. dont be mean.. a real man wont b put off by dat anyway.. :o> hahahaha

cherah!!!!



Anonymous said...

*To the guys... fam if ur working in the off license, signing on, sweepin da roads,shot weed or bone do not move to nicky fam u have been prewarned...* That just cracked me up man lol But still working in a dead end job dont mean the guy has no aspirations or ambition just might mean parts of the puzzle of life aint clicked for him yet!

*I just wanna add, that a man must be CLEAN.. HYGIENE is key. I know it seems blatant, but trust me there are some durrty guys at my uni. To an extent where I can smell them from across the room.* Good point girl BUT SHIT YOU WOMEN NEED TO BE CLEAN TOO loool and please ladies when u get weave MAKE SURE IT STAYS ON YOUR HEAD cuz when we getting down i dont want that shit coming off your head like a dead rat or something SHIT THATS NASTY HAHAHAHAH loooooool!!!

Seriously i hear what your saying about the car it does show independence but i now alot of geezers out there that have driving licences no whip as there our more important needs out there like FOOD, water you now that type of stuff haha

All a man wants really is a down ass chick seriously a girl he can come home too relieve a lil stress and chill with, straight up thats all i want an if i said i wanted more ill be taking the piss only have 1 request you brush your teeth and you dont fart in your sleep STRAIGHT !!!



Simey baaby said...

loool @ paul bro dont forget no snoring lowe waking me up b4 my alarm making mee think sumones in da yard lol 4 real sum of dese ladies need to get the weave sorted lowe da bait ones.

If u do happen to wear it n ur in my world make mee ask u iz dat ur real hair instead of how much inches did u buy this time...lol

yo nik nak, i jus won wednesdays lotery babe looking for a real women to share it with still...u interested??



Nicole (Cherries TnT) Louis said...

HAHAHAHAHA! Simeyu shud no betta dan t try n blind me wid money.. u bo u won a fiva an daT can only get me a KFC meal.. wot About wen my belly's ful;??? lol.. thanx u for thinkin of me tho ;o) clearly- real recognises real!!!

an i like da 1 about da weave tho... LMAO



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